\u00c7ocuklukta arkada\u015fl\u0131k- sadece e\u011flence de\u011fil, ayn\u0131 zamanda sosyal geli\u015fimin \u00f6nemli bir a\u015famas\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7ocuk akranlar\u0131yla ileti\u015fim kurarak g\u00fcvenmeyi, i\u015fbirli\u011fi yapmay\u0131, \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zmeyi ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n duygular\u0131n\u0131 anlamay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenir. Ancak t\u00fcm \u00e7ocuklar arkada\u015f edinmeyi kolay bulmaz. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ili\u015fkiler kurmas\u0131na nas\u0131l yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilirsiniz?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
1. \u0130leti\u015fim becerilerini geli\u015ftirmek<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130leti\u015fim yetene\u011fi arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n temelidir. E\u011fer bir \u00e7ocuk utanga\u00e7sa veya bir sohbeti nas\u0131l ba\u015flataca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmiyorsa, arkada\u015f edinmesi zor olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nas\u0131l yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilirsiniz?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– \u00c7ocu\u011funuza basit tan\u0131\u015fma c\u00fcmlelerini \u00f6\u011fretin: \u201cMerhaba, ad\u0131n ne?\u201d, \u201cHadi birlikte oynayal\u0131m!\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Diyalog konu\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 geli\u015ftirin: sorular sorun, muhatab\u0131 dinlemeyi \u00f6\u011fretin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Rol yapma oyunlar\u0131 oynay\u0131n (\u201cNas\u0131l tan\u0131\u015f\u0131l\u0131r?\u201d, \u201cNas\u0131l oyun \u00f6nerilir?\u201d).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
2. Sosyalle\u015fmek i\u00e7in rahat bir ortam yaratmak<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7ocuklar tan\u0131d\u0131k ve g\u00fcvenli bir ortamda daha kolay arkada\u015f bulurlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nerede arkada\u015f edinmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Anaokulu\/okul – d\u00fczenli grup sosyalle\u015fmesi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Bah\u00e7e oyunlar\u0131 – kom\u015fu \u00e7ocuklarla ortak y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015fler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Kul\u00fcpler ve \u015fubeler – ortak ilgi alanlar\u0131 sizi birbirinize yakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– \u00c7ocuk tatilleri – gayri resmi atmosfer gev\u015femeye yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
3. Duygusal zekan\u0131n geli\u015ftirilmesi<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Arkada\u015fl\u0131k, ki\u015finin kendisinin ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n duygular\u0131n\u0131 anlayabilmesini gerektirir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu nas\u0131l \u00f6\u011fretilir?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Kitaplardaki ve \u00e7izgi filmlerdeki karakterlerin duygular\u0131n\u0131 tart\u0131\u015f\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– \u00c7ocu\u011funuzla duygular\u0131 hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fun: “\u00dczg\u00fcn m\u00fcs\u00fcn \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc…?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– \u00d6z\u00fcr dilemeyi, te\u015fekk\u00fcr etmeyi, payla\u015fmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretin – bu dostluklar\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7lendirir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
4. Destekleyin, bask\u0131 yapmay\u0131n<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Baz\u0131 ebeveynler \u00e7ok fazla m\u00fcdahale eder ve bu da \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in strese neden olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yard\u0131m etmenin do\u011fru yolu nedir?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Zorla arkada\u015fl\u0131k kurmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131klar i\u00e7in ele\u015ftirmeyin (\u201cNeden yaln\u0131zs\u0131n ve herkes oynuyor?\u201d).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Ge\u00e7ici de olsa ileti\u015fim kurma giri\u015fimlerini \u00f6v\u00fcn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
5. Ki\u015fisel \u00f6rnek<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7ocuklar yeti\u015fkinlerin davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 kopyalar. E\u011fer aile arkada\u015f canl\u0131s\u0131ysa, \u00e7ocuk bu modeli benimser.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ne yap\u0131labilir?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131zla nas\u0131l sosyalle\u015fti\u011finizi g\u00f6sterin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– \u00c7ocuklu aileleri ziyarete davet edin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Arkada\u015fl\u0131k hakk\u0131nda \u00e7ocuklu\u011funuzdan hikayeler anlat\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
6. \u00c7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 \u00c7\u00f6zmek<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7ocuklar aras\u0131nda kavgalar ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmazd\u0131r, ancak \u00e7ocu\u011funuza uzla\u015fmay\u0131 ve m\u00fczakere etmeyi \u00f6\u011fretmek \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nas\u0131l yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilirsiniz?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– \u00c7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n normal oldu\u011funu a\u00e7\u0131klay\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– \u201cHadi bar\u0131\u015fal\u0131m\u201d, \u201cSeni incitmek istememi\u015ftim\u201d demeyi \u00f6\u011fretin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Her \u015feye \u00e7ocu\u011funuz ad\u0131na karar vermeyin, ona bir \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f yolu bulmas\u0131 i\u00e7in bir \u015fans verin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
7. Bir \u00e7ocuk utanga\u00e7sa<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Her \u00e7ocuk do\u011fu\u015ftan sosyal de\u011fildir, ancak bu arkada\u015flar\u0131 olmayaca\u011f\u0131 anlam\u0131na gelmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Onlar\u0131 nas\u0131l destekleyebilirsiniz?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnde ona \u201cutanga\u00e7\u201d demeyin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ba\u015flay\u0131n: Bire bir ileti\u015fim b\u00fcy\u00fck bir gruptan daha rahatt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ad\u0131mlar i\u00e7in \u00f6vg\u00fcde bulunun: \u201cBug\u00fcn \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n yan\u0131na tek ba\u015f\u0131na gittin – bu harika!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sonu\u00e7<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7ocuklukta arkada\u015fl\u0131k, yeti\u015fkinlikte faydal\u0131 olacak sosyal becerilerin e\u011fitimidir. Ebeveynlerin g\u00f6revi \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in arkada\u015f se\u00e7mek de\u011fil, kendi kendine ili\u015fki kurmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenebilece\u011fi ko\u015fullar\u0131 yaratmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00d6nemli olan orada olmak, desteklemek ve \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun kesinlikle ger\u00e7ek arkada\u015flar edinece\u011fine inanmakt\u0131r!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u00c7ocuklukta arkada\u015fl\u0131k- sadece e\u011flence de\u011fil, ayn\u0131 zamanda sosyal geli\u015fimin \u00f6nemli bir a\u015famas\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7ocuk akranlar\u0131yla ileti\u015fim kurarak g\u00fcvenmeyi, i\u015fbirli\u011fi yapmay\u0131, \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zmeyi ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n duygular\u0131n\u0131 anlamay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenir. Ancak t\u00fcm \u00e7ocuklar arkada\u015f edinmeyi kolay bulmaz. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ili\u015fkiler kurmas\u0131na nas\u0131l yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilirsiniz? 1. \u0130leti\u015fim becerilerini geli\u015ftirmek \u0130leti\u015fim yetene\u011fi arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n temelidir. E\u011fer bir \u00e7ocuk utanga\u00e7sa veya […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6057,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[355,309],"tags":[612,609,615,613,608,610,611,614,607],"class_list":["post-6059","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile","category-kisisel-sosyal-ve-duygusal-gelisim-tr","tag-anaokulu-okul-duzenli-grup-sosyallesmesi","tag-catismalari-cozmek","tag-cocukken-arkadas-edinmek","tag-diyalog-konusmasi-gelistirmek","tag-duygusal-zekayi-gelistirmek","tag-ebeveynler-icin-ipuclari","tag-iletisim-becerilerini-gelistirmek","tag-sosyallesmek-icin-rahat-bir-ortam-yaratmak","tag-zorla-arkadaslik-kurmayin"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/nickyacademy.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6059","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/nickyacademy.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/nickyacademy.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nickyacademy.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nickyacademy.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6059"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/nickyacademy.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6059\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6060,"href":"https:\/\/nickyacademy.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6059\/revisions\/6060"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nickyacademy.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6057"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/nickyacademy.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6059"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nickyacademy.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6059"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nickyacademy.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6059"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}